When Less Is More

If I want to be a good friend, what are some things I should avoid?

READ: Job 2:11; Job 16:1-3.

Job's friends were at their best when they showed up, sat with him, and listened without saying a word (see Job 2:12-13). Unfortunately, they then began to lecture Job on why they thought he was suffering and what they thought he should do about it. In the end, they even told Job that his suffering was his own fault. If only they knew the truth (read Job 1-2 for the real reason Job suffered)! A good friend is quick to listen and slow to judge. The words you speak to a friend can heal like a comforting balm or they can wound like an arrow. When your friend is hurting, the best thing you can do is to be there to listen and comfort.
So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.

Matthew 7:12

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